Chip HeathAnger prepares us to fight and fear prepares us to flee.
About This Quote
Anger and fear are two of the strongest emotions that humans experience. These emotions can be useful at times, but you should be aware that anger and fear can also be destructive and dangerous. When emotions such as these control your mind and change your behavior, they can lead to actions that can damage relationships. The way to deal with this type of emotion is to prepare yourself for a fight or a flight mode before it strikes.
Source: Made To Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive And Others Die
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